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  • 'Setan Merah' Jajah Asia

    Manchester - Manchester United bakal melancong ke sejumlah negara Asia menjelang musim 2007-2008 untuk menggelar laga ujicoba. Asia Tenggara termasuk dalam rencana 'jajahan' mereka. Ke Indonesiakah?

    Sayangnya tidak. Hanya negara tetangga Malaysia yang ketiban rezeki didatangi Wayne Rooney, Cristiano Ronaldo, Park Ji Sung, Rio Ferdinand dan pemain lainnya dalam lawatan mereka ke Asia di bulan Juli nanti.

    Dikutip dari situs resmi MU, Jumat (20/4/2007), rombongan 'Setan Merah' akan mampir ke Malaysia pada 27 Juli nanti, tepatnya ke Kuala Lumpur untuk melakoni laga persahabatan melawan Malaysia XI. Laga ini juga merupakan penutup tur MU di Asia.

    Sebelum ke 'Negeri Jiran', MU menjadwalkan melakoni laga persahabatan melawan juara Jepang Urawa Red Diamond pada 17 Juli di Saitama, menghadapi FC Seoul di Korea Selatan pada 20 Juli dan kemudian berlanjut ke Macau tiga hari kemudian untuk melawan Shenzhen.

    "Klub memiliki kelompok pendukung yang loyal dan luas di seluruh daerah dan pemain selalu menikmati saat mengunjungi dan bermain di depan pendukung setia mereka. Semua orang sangat menunggu momen ini," tutur chief exevutive MU David Gill seperti dilansir AFP.

    Tour MU ke Asia ini sendiri bukan yang pertama kalinya dilakukan. Terakhir skuad asuhan Sir Alex Ferguson juga sempat menyambangi fansnya di Asia pada 2005 lalu, yaitu ke Hong Kong, Cina dan Jepang.

  • Share : Kiat menghadapi Tilang di jalan

    Ada yang share postingan bagus nih....:DD

    Mungkin banyak sekali pertanyaan akhir2 ini, Mengapa polisi di Indonesia begitu bobroknya dan menyedihkan dalaam menangani pelanggaran lalu lintas baik itu memang kesalahan si pengemudi atau sengaja mencari kesalahan si pengemudi. Seperti yang kita ketahui banyak sekali polisi yang meminta uang sogokan/damai ketika hal itu terjadi baik itu dengan dalih menitipkan ke pengadilan, maupun bayar di tempat, ataupun untuk membantu keluarganya ( lutchu yah, ini beneran terjadi) . Mungkin banyak sekali saran ataupun solusi dalam menangani kebobrokan polisi, mungkin dengan membenahi SDM nya, sistemnya, atau dari gajinya Apapun pilihan itu tidak akan banyak berpengaruh karena

    1. Manusia tidak pernah puas ( mau digaji berapun pasti tetap meminta uang tambahan )
    2. Harus dibutuhkan waktu yang lama untuk mengubah paradigma SDM ( polisi ) dalam masalah uang sogokan / damai, mengingat semua polisi seakan2 membenarkan hal ini, dan sudah terbiasa dengan hal ini.
    3. Sistem tidak akan berjalan kalau tidak dibarengin dengan kesadaran SDM nya

    Jadi kesimpulannya Mulailah Dari Diri Anda Sendiri, tidak usah takut atau males kalau mengurus tilang di pengadilan, kalau anda melakukan secara resmi anda pun akan membantu pendapatan Negara Indonesia dibandingkan membantu pendapat segilintir polisi, lagipula denda yang dibayar pun lebih mahal daripada denda resminya, jadi Mulailah Dari Diri Anda Sendiri, berikut ini adalah tips-tips dalam menangani pelanggaran lalu lintas :

    1. Kalau anda ditilang di jalan sebenernya ada dua pilihan (saya juga baru tahu), form biru dan form merah

    2. Form biru adalah kalo anda terima kesalahan anda (artinya anda gak perlu berdebat ama hakim). Dgn form ini anda bayar dendanya di BRI yg ditunjuk, abis bayar denda resmi ke BRI, ambil SIM ato STNK yg disita ke kantor Ditlantas POLDA Metro di Pancoran, gedung baru, sebelum Gelael arah cawang. Disini ada ruang khusus loket Tilang, ruang tunggu nyaman ber-AC, dengan hiburan SateliteTV.

    3. Form merah artinya anda gak terima kesalahan anda, dan dikasih kesempatan untuk berdebat ato minta keringanan ama hakim. Biasanya tanggal sidang adalah maksimum 14 hari dari tanggal kejadian, tergantung hari sidang Tilang di PN (Pengadilan Negeri) bersangkutan. Contoh temen saya ditilang di Kuningan, berarti sidang di PN Jaksel, jl ampera, disini sidang tilang setiap selasa. Nah oleh polisi, barang sitaan (SIM or STNK) akan disetor ke kantor Ditlantas pancoran itu sampai dengan H-1 tanggal sidang. Jadi selama masih di pancoran SIM/STNK itu bisa ditebus tanpa sidang ke PN, cukup ke loket yg gue sebutin tadi, serahin form merah, bayar dendanya, SIM/STNK balik dengan sukses.

    4. H-1 tgl sidang dan seterusnya, SIM/STNK udah dikirim ke pengadilan sesuai daerah perkara, jadi kudu ditebus di PN masing2

    5. Kalo pengen hadir sidang, dateng sesuai tanggal sidang yang tertera di surat Tilang ke PN yg ditunjuk. Tapi ini gak di saranin. Kenapa ? karena antreannya luar biasa banyak, kita gak punya kesempatan bertemu hakim, karena sidangnya sebenarnya IN ABSENTIA, dan banyak banget CALO yg nawarin bantuan. Mending enggak deh

    6. Lebih baik cuekin aja tanggal sidang, ambil SIM/STNK terserah anda di hari lain, hindari hari sidang tilang biar gak rame, terus langsung tuju Loket khusus Tilang yang ada di masing2 PN. Tunjukin form merahnya, dalam 5 menit SIM/STNK udah di tangan anda dengan bayar denda resmi. Sebelumnya cermati berapa denda resminya, biar gak dilebih2in ama petugasnya. Contoh nih, saya tahu denda masuk jalur cepat (saya naik motor) Rp.15000, petugasnya bilang Rp.25600, dikasi angka 600 seolah2 itu perhitungan rumus2 njelimet, padahal akal2an aja biar ada yg masuk kantong dia. saya kasi uang bulet 15.000 dia diem aja kok..hehe

    7. Udah ngerti kan. jadi intinya : jangan sekali2 damai ama polisi di jalanan, tilang mah tilang aja, pilih prosedur sesuai tips diatas, gak usah sidang kalo gak pengen bete, cuekin calo2 yg nawarin bantuan, bayar denda sesuai tarif resmi. Semua ini demi INDONESIA yg bersih dan berwibawa

    NB : Mulailah dari diri anda sendiri

    Forward artikel ini ke teman-teman anda untuk membantu kebersihan dan kelangsungan negeri kita yang tercinta ini, god bless u

  • Perfectionism - When High Standards Attack!

    What's wrong with striving for perfection? Doesn't that mean that you will always do your best?

    Let's consider those two standards--" be perfect" and "do your best." Are they really equivalent?

    In his 27 years of coaching basketball at UCLA, John Wooden had one standard that he taught all of his players: Do your best. He is famous not only for his incredible record at UCLA, but for his philosophy of success.

    According to Coach Wooden, the scoreboard did not determine who won or lost. Only the player himself could know that. If he played his best, he won. If he slacked off, he lost, even if his team's score was higher.

    Sounds a bit like an aphorism we know: It's not whether you win or lose, but how you play the game. Most people scoff at such a sentiment these days. But it's impossible to argue with Coach Wooden's results: he led UCLA to ten NCAA Championships in his final twelve years as coach. He is considered to be the most successful coach in college basketball.

    Notice that Coach Wooden's philosophy was not "be perfect." Nor was it "be better than the other team."

    Can you see how "do your best" is fundamentally different?

    "Be perfect" measures your performance by your mistakes and shortcomings. There is perfection, and then how far you fall short of it.

    "Be better" measures your performance by someone else's performance. It doesn't really matter how YOU perform, as long as they perform worse than you.

    But "do your best" measures your performance by your effort and preparation. Why is this distinction so important? Because effort and preparation are things you can control.

    When you try to be perfect or to be better than someone else, your focus shifts away from what you can control to what you can't. You worry about what you might do wrong, what obstacles you might encounter that will hinder your performance, or whether the other person will "beat" you. Later, you second-guess your decisions, and you dwell on If-Only's. If only this hadn't gone wrong, if only they hadn't been so lucky.

    All of which creates stress and despair because deep down inside you know perfection is impossible. Thus perfectionism soon becomes an excuse for inaction: "If I can't be perfect, why should I even try?"

    But when you focus on doing your best, you don't worry, you act. You look for ways to improve, not ways to avoid mistakes. You look for ways to succeed, not ways to avoid defeat. You are energized but at peace, knowing that what you can't control (other people or circumstances) is not relevant to your self-esteem or the quality of your performance.

    Afterwards, when you know you did the best you could do, you feel good about yourself. You've measured your performance by the only standard that's meaningful, the only standard from which you can learn and grow.

    Perfectionism is an excuse, not a livable standard for achievement. And when you relinquish your perfectionist standards, you'll find that you actually get much more accomplished.

  • Building the High-Performance Team

    By Dr. Carol A. Beatty, Director, Queen's Industrial Relations Centre.

    The managers who gathered around the table to plan a large budget cut didn't look much like a cohesive team. In fact, they resembled competing animals around a shrinking watering hole. Each had his or her own staff and mandate to protect. And everyone realized how high the stakes were: if the downsizing wasn't done judiciously, a damaging political backlash would certainly result. How were they to proceed?

    As they eyed one other warily, the Deputy Minister introduced a skilled facilitator, one who understood what it would take to help this task force evolve into a high-performance team. The facilitator knew, for example, that it would be difficult to recover from a shaky start. She also knew that one of the greatest challenges for members would be to resolve the tension between their individual and collective interests.

    She would have to address these issues by helping the task force commit to a common purpose and goals, to set up ground rules for working together, and to ensure that all members felt able to express their opinions openly. That completed, she would then need to help members agree on a problem-solving approach and on a way of handling the inevitable disagreements and interpersonal stresses that would occur as they worked together closely. A tall order indeed.

    The Research: What Makes For a High-Performance Team?
    How can the Task Force facilitator create a high-performance team? At the Queen's Industrial Relations Centre, we have surveyed more than 200 teams and trained more than 250 facilitators from various public and private organizations.

    Our research has found three main high-performance factors that make for excellence in collaborative projects, accounting for more than 80 percent of the statistical variance in team performance in our study:
    good team management practices
    group problem solving skills
    group conflict resolution skills.

    Fortunately, these success factors are either skills than can be mastered by the majority of teams or structures and processes that can be put in place. Let's take a closer look at IRC's research on each of the three attributes that characterize a high-performance team – and how our facilitator must put it into practice to build the Task Force's team capacity.

    High Performance Factor 1: Team Management Practices
    The first element in high performance is a cluster of factors we call team management practices, which fit into three broad categories:

    Approaching team tasks – This includes such things as having a team mission, setting team goals, generating procedures or norms to regulate team members' conduct and behaviour, ensuring efficient organization and meetings, and reaching agreement on sound approaches to task performance.
    Maintaining good team relations - To foster top-notch team relations, high-performance teams ensure that all members feel included and able to express their opinions openly. Members share leadership and make sure member talents are fully utilized and nobody gets a “free ride.”
    Gaining member commitment - High performing teams demand full commitment to the team and its work from members, even though member efforts may not be balanced over the short run.

    Our facilitator knew exactly how to create and formalize effective Team Management Practices: she led the Task Force in building its Team Charter. This exercise provides members with a process of mutual discovery about their common purpose and how they plan to achieve it by defining:

    Task responsibilities – their goals, timelines, scope, and authority
    Social responsibilities – the roles they are expected to play, the relationships they are expected to develop, and the behavioural guidelines they are expected to follow
    Commitment to the team – what's in it for the members, the skills and experiences they have to contribute, and what additional skills and experiences they need to acquire to participate fully

    High Performance Factor 2: Team Problem-Solving Skills
    Solving problems is at the core of a team's activities, and these team skills make the most difference between high or low team performance. Teams that are good at problem-solving do two things well: they are patient communicators, and they use a systematic process for solving problems. It is the combination of these two skills that leads to group synergy – the ability to create a better solution together than any of the members could have generated alone.

    Communications patiencePatient communicators work hard to understand others and to be understood. Creating synergy depends on team members' willingness to accept each other's ideas, to delay closure until a full discussion takes place, and to build on all members' perspectives, alternatives, and solutions. Obviously, this is easier said than done, especially when team members care passionately about the group decision or when rewards are dependent on team outcomes. That's where patient communication comes in. Of all the communications skills we measured, the most important one involved the way team members reacted to communications difficulties.

    Patient communicators do not dampen down passionate stances as too dangerous to handle. Rather, they slow it down so they can listen to the varied perspectives being expressed, f ocusing energy positively so that barriers are not formed – a big challenge for our facilitator, particularly if members have some history with each other. The facilitator made sure that Task Force team m embers with controversial views were not blocked or ignored, and drew out quiet members so everyone got a fair hearing.

    Systematic problem-solvingHigh-performance teams are also consistent in their use of a problem-solving process. It doesn't seem to matter much which process they use, be it five or nine steps, but it does matter that they are disciplined in applying it. Our facilitator helped the team put into place a problem-solving process to ensure that members do not prematurely jump to conclusions, but expand their creative and strategic thinking before solution generation and action planning.

    High Performance Factor 3: Group Conflict Resolution Skills
    The final skill set that the facilitator must develop in the Task Force team is conflict resolution competence.

    Every team runs into conflict, but what distinguishes high-performing teams from the others is how the team as a whole deals with it. Teams are headed for trouble when they avoid confronting conflict: it merely festers under the surface of team interactions until it often reappears suddenly as a full-blown crisis. And when such a crisis occurs, it is often personalized to such an extent that it is difficult, if not impossible, to get the team back on track.

    Conflict may arise from many sources, but in our experience, interpersonal conflicts have been the most difficult to resolve—individual members' antisocial behaviour, lack of politeness or respect for others, attempts at dominance, withdrawal or indifference, failure to pull their own weight, criticism or personal attacks, and so forth.

    In skilled teams, conflict is viewed as a normal and healthy aspect of working together. Members surface diverse views and feel safe to examine ideas without fear of retribution; are careful not to personalize the conflict, evaluating the idea and not the person. In addition to dealing with current issues, the facilitator made sure that the team created procedures to deal with similar eruptions in the future. This way, team members are confident they can raise issues, subject ideas to critical examination, and express themselves openly, without fear they will harm the team or interpersonal relations.

    The Solution: After Teams
    All in all, the facilitator had a lot of work to do to ensure that the Task Force developed the team skills to deal with the highly charged and difficult task of downsizing. In the end, the Ministry's confidence that the effort was worthwhile was rewarded: The Task Force came up with a better-than-expected solution that was fully supported throughout the organization. In addition, Task Force members were transformed into committed advocates and became more sophisticated team players, ready to take on the next team challenge thrown their way.
    And in both today's public administration and private sector environments, that challenge will certainly not be long in coming.

  • Six Steps to a Fulfilling Career

    Identify the talents and skills you enjoy using. Your ability to make a difference in the service of others will be evident when you do what you love and do best. Analyze past accomplishments to identify skills you enjoy using. What work would you be doing if money were not a concern?
    Recognize societal needs that you want to fill or problems you want to solve. Find a problem that others will pay you to solve, resolve, or impact in a positive way. The need or problem you select should be one about which you feel passionate—and one which would benefit from your skills and talents. What needs doing that turns you on?

    Determine the types of jobs and companies, or self-employment opportunities, that address the problems or needs you’ve identified. Use public and career libraries to research and identify employers and opportunities. Conduct informational interviews with people—including hiring managers—in the fields of work that interest you.

    Ascertain whether you need additional assets to do the type of work you’ve identified. You may need additional education or training to develop the necessary skills and knowledge. Volunteer experience, part-time work, and internships can provide excellent ways to develop new skills.
    Develop a verbal or written employment proposal for the companies that interest you. Include descriptions of the job you want to do, your skills, and the benefits you can bring to the company of interest. Show the employer that the value you offer is greater than the cost to employ you.
    Use marketing strategies to reach the hiring authorities and present your proposal. Contact hiring authorities by mail or phone. An ideal approach is to present your proposal to employers whom you previously interviewed during your research-gathering phase.

    Copyright 2007. Raymond Gerson (From How to Create the Job You Want)
    Raymond Gerson has over forty years experience teaching career and personal development. Career coach, job placement specialist, and trainer, he also owned an executive search and recruiting business. He is the author of five books including Create the Life You Want and How to Create the Job You Want. Two of his ebooks, How to Create the Job You Want and Effective Job Search Strategies are available for free at http://www.raymondgerson.com along with numerous success and study strategy articles.

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